Just a thought~

When will you know if you have found the right person whom you want to spend the rest of your life waking up next to? Everytime you go into a relationship, it just seems that at that time, that person is the right one but somehow, the 2 will end up quarrelling and fighting with each other and there you will realie that actually the 2 are not meant to be. So how exactly did our parents, grandparents, aunties and uncles make that important decision?

People are just so blinded by love when in a relationship in the beginning. You will love this person so much that it actually makes you think that yeap, he/she is the right one. But after endless disagreements, fights and quarrels, you will get sick of that person, that you break off with him/her. Quarrels and disagreements happen at different periods for every couple. So what if it comes right after you get married? What if you realise that who you are married to is not the one? What happens next? How would one know that the "big" one is over already? Isn't it scary to wake up one day to realise that the one you are married to isn't the one you are waiting for? So how do we know that he/she is the one?

As Quoted:

In a relationship, both parties have to do their part to make things work. The most important thing is communication. Keeping quiet is not the solution for any problems/disagreements. Leave a "cooling off" period before bringing things up. Always discussed things with each other before making any decisions.

You cannot make someone change for you but it's how you yourself change to be more suited for the special someone.

P.S: Do special little things to surprise each other once in awhile and don't forget to say "I Love You" and to mean it when you do! =)

The beauty in ugly

here's a great song...

it's time for HEALTHY lifestyle!

Tennis at Yishun Safra today with Dear, Yeh Yang and Joey.. The last time I played tennis, it was 2 years back when I was in JC2. For our PE lessons, we were divided into different groups and every term, we had to learn a different type of sports. I was in the tennis group with Fang. All of us didn't really know how to play but we just whack when the ball comes. There was a particular term which I could still remember, the four of us, Fang, CMY, Ade and me.. we were in the dance group taught by Miss Aud.. We learnt Cha-Cha, Waltz, all the different ballroom dances, which I cannot remember how to dance anymore.. hahaha~

Today's game.. hMMm.. I am still as lousy as before but I managed a few good hits. Not too bad after such a long time but I guess I still have to brush up on my tennis skills!

Industrial Attachment

My first week of attachment is finally over.. Just when I am so excited about going home at last from hall, the stuff in this part of the country isn't at all exciting. Friday night just passed by so quickly because I was stuck in some ridiculous jam from the minute I leave NTU to Bedok. 2 hours well spent on the road! HAA~ It's Saturday today and guess what, I'm at home staring at the damn laptop(which luckily I remembered to bring home!) or else, I would have turned into some stoneage statue. It's nearly 6pm now and yeap! almost the whole day is gone and I have not done anything much.. I guess it will be the same for me tomorrow as most of my Sundays are spent like that already! eeks! to my life..

This first week of attachment didn't really seem very very exciting. 1st 2 days were mostly spent on orientation. Then, it was reading of endless SOPs, and more of it! But luckily on the last day of the week, the technicians whom I am going to work with brought me up to the boilers which I had a better understanding of them. It's so COOL but literally hot as we were standing right next to 3 of them, boiling at almost 135 degrees! My colleague also brought me to the Waste Water Treatment Plant to have a better understanding of the whole plant and the systems there.. The smell wasn't as bad as I thought and while he and another guy were explaining to me and bringing me around the place, I suddenly had this thought: "I think I am seriously in the wrong course! Somehow, I can understand the systems there better and being there also made me more excited and happy!(minus the smelly part of course!)" But, too bad! Cos I am already half way through whatever I am doing now.

My supervisor told me that he will be giving me small assignments to do starting next week which I don't know if I should be happy or scared. Happy because I finally have something to do other then reading of the SOPs. Scared because I am not too confident about myself being up for the assignments. As we all know, I am in MAE not bcos I wan to and I am not too sure what I have learnt for the past 2 years to be truthful! I guess I just have to be as confident as I can and try to do as much as I can. =)

Cheers!

Perth

30/06/08 - 03/07/08

The Journey to Perth...

accompanied my brother and father to Perth last weekend to settle stuff for my brother.. visited Moon and Merv at the same time.. stayed with them throughout the whole 4 days and I'm really glad that I went over to Perth. the weather there is really cooling and it makes me feel a lot better cos there isn't a single moment that I perspired! and of course, I managed to catch up alot with Moon.. I miss her.. didnt have much time to go shopping in Singapore, or should I say I couldnt find anyone to go shopping with me cos everyone's busy with their own stuff. although we didnt really shop alot over at Perth, I still enjoyed myself as it has been a really long time since I last went out shopping with Moon! Perth is a very pretty place and the people there are unlike those in Singapore.. there was never a moment I felt irritated there.. the culture is totally different from Singapore's.. being there makes me feel relaxed and alot more peaceful! and the food.. GREAT! though it's like so expensive eating out there, the food there are valued for money! DELICIOUS! hahaha~

while catching up with Moon, we both realised that many things have changed and things are not like before anymore.. we all have grown, matured and our thinkings are no longer like when we just met. it sometimes pains us to see that some things have changed till we are unable to recognise anymore.. but this is what time and years will do to us and there's nothing we could do but to understand and hopefully help realise them..

will upload photos as soon as Merv send them to me! =)