When will you know if you have found the right person whom you want to spend the rest of your life waking up next to? Everytime you go into a relationship, it just seems that at that time, that person is the right one but somehow, the 2 will end up quarrelling and fighting with each other and there you will realie that actually the 2 are not meant to be. So how exactly did our parents, grandparents, aunties and uncles make that important decision?
People are just so blinded by love when in a relationship in the beginning. You will love this person so much that it actually makes you think that yeap, he/she is the right one. But after endless disagreements, fights and quarrels, you will get sick of that person, that you break off with him/her. Quarrels and disagreements happen at different periods for every couple. So what if it comes right after you get married? What if you realise that who you are married to is not the one? What happens next? How would one know that the "big" one is over already? Isn't it scary to wake up one day to realise that the one you are married to isn't the one you are waiting for? So how do we know that he/she is the one?
As Quoted:
In a relationship, both parties have to do their part to make things work. The most important thing is communication. Keeping quiet is not the solution for any problems/disagreements. Leave a "cooling off" period before bringing things up. Always discussed things with each other before making any decisions.
You cannot make someone change for you but it's how you yourself change to be more suited for the special someone.
P.S: Do special little things to surprise each other once in awhile and don't forget to say "I Love You" and to mean it when you do! =)
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